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Welcome
May this be a uniting place
around grace
and truth
and love
A gathering place
where creed does not matter
and background is not mentioned
and past is forgotten
May this be a holy pace
that reorientates
refocuses
renews the world
And in the retelling of ancient stories
that speak into our contemporary world
Let us worship
Story
Gillian:
Judah went down from his brothers, settling near a certain Adullamite whose name was Hirah. There, Judah saw the daughter of a Canaanite whose name was Shua; he married her and bore a son; and he named him Er. Again she conceived and bore a son whom she named Onan. Yet again she bore a son, and she named him Shelah.
Roddy:
Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn; called Tamar. But Er died… so under leverite marriage laws… Tamar who had no children was married on to Onan… but Onan, the story tells us, did was was wrong in the sight of the Lord… (You can read that for yourself in Genesis 38)… and died… Tamar then ought to have been married on to Shelah… but Judah began to think there was a curse on Tamar and so while she was promised in marriage to Shelah… she was never married to him… so Tamar was trapped… promised in marriage… but remained a widow and therefore unsupported…
Gillian:
In course of time the wife of Judah, Shuah’s daughter, died; when Judah’s time of mourning was over, he went up to Timnah to his sheepshearers, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite. 13 When Tamar was told, “Your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep,” 14 she put off her widow’s garments, put on a veil, wrapped herself up, and sat down at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah. She saw that Shelah was grown up, yet she had not been given to him in marriage. 15 When Judah saw her, he thought her to be a prostitute, for she had covered her face.
Roddy:
The next bit you can probably guess… Judah, not knowing it was Tamar… had relations with her… thinking she was a temple prostitute… When she asked for payment… Judah said he’d send a goat… “Fine, she said, only if you give me a pledge as proof you will do so”… He gave her his signet ring, cord and staff…
Gillian:
20 When Judah sent the kid by his friend the Adullamite, to recover the pledge from the woman, he could not find her. 21 He asked the townspeople, “Where is the temple prostitute who was at Enaim by the wayside?” But they said, “No prostitute has been here.” 22 So he returned to Judah, and said, “I have not found her; moreover the townspeople said, ‘No prostitute has been here.’”
Roddy:
About three months later… it was discovered that Tamar was pregnant… She had disgraced herself and the family… and so there was only one leal course of action… and Judah said…
Gillian:
“Bring her out, and let her be burned.”
Roddy:
At that point… Tamar sent to her father in law, Judah, a note with the pledges which said…
Gillian:
“It was the owner of these who made me pregnant.” And she said, “Take note, please, whose these are, the signet and the cord and the staff.”
Roddy:
His servant brought them to Judah who was in his tent… then left him on his own… Judah paused… recognising them… but no shame was brought on him… because only he knew whose they were… and said penitently… “She is more in the right than I, since I did not give her to my son Shelah.”
Gillian:
27 When the time of her delivery came, there were twins in her womb. 28 While she was in labour, one put out a hand; and the midwife took and bound on his hand a crimson thread, saying, “This one came out first.” 29 But just then he drew back his hand, and out came his brother; and she said, “What a breach you have made for yourself!” Therefore he was named Perez.[c] 30 Afterward his brother came out with the crimson thread on his hand; and he was named Zerah.[d]
Tamar
Genesis 38 11:6-26
Prayer
Creating One
in that on going
continuing
ever renewing creation
we gather
a place where what has been done
is let go
and what is yet to be
is hoped in
In this creative place
where letting go
and forgiving
and renewing
all come together
we gather
because we need to
to lay down here
the woes of our world
and the worries of our own
the hurts of our land
and the wrongs of ourselves
that we might
in honesty
and humility
with a penitence of faith
and a hope of grace
be renewed
That we might turn from that which lessens us
reduces our humanity
and leave that here
in this holy place
and dare believe
that can be renewed
redeemed
reborn
into this new day
and that we might follow you
more closely
more faithfully
more generously
Ever recreating God
may we trust that truth is alive in us
recreated
daily
that love never leaves us alone
or unchanged
or forgotten
and each day
is a new day
in you
and you have plenty of these
So we gather
that we might renew our souls
recharge our hope
and refocus our living
So be it
Amen